Monday, 20 February 2012

The Wonders of Love






I stumbled on this quote while I was surfing the net earlier. Sorry, typo error in the word "your" but it's still meaningful nonetheless. Oh btw, I'm very particular when it comes to grammar. I've been trained to write and speak without grammatical mistakes to the extent that any mistake I detect in other people's sentences or words annoys me. I mean, it's minimal annoyance but it's still enough to make me realise the mistake. Anyways, I'm not usually someone who talks much about love but I find this particular quote very true and I'd like to live by this if I do get into a relationship one day. 

I'm one who believes strongly in fate. If anything were meant to be, everything would fall into place. It sounds silly, I know -- but it happens. I have yet to personally experience it myself but I believe it exists. I believe that love has a way of telling you if you've met THE ONE. It's just whether you're observant enough to realise the signs when you're with your partner.




Love is not about doing things to show how much you love a person; or being there for each other; or being able to tolerate his flaws; or changing yourself for him. It's about wanting to know every single detail of the person you love and wanting to be with the him because you enjoy the nature of his company. 




You feel that he is someone you can share your life with for all eternity. Love is about not getting bored of the person no matter how much you know about him and you know you're in love when you feel that his flaw is a quality that makes him who he is and it's what strengthens your love for him.




Love is about loving someone for who he is and being able to be yourself around him with these being reciprocated. Love is about not being able to explain why you love a person because the feelings are ingrained in you naturally without your knowledge. 




Love is about being emotionally attached to him despite being with him for many years; when he's not around, you don't feel uncomfortable because you trust him and you want to give him space to live his own life while you do the same and when he is around, you feel warmth, comfort and a sense of belongingness, as if he was never gone. 

It's about constantly feeling that things are right when you're with him and not being able to get over the fact that he's yours and that he can make you feel for him what others can't for them.




Lastly and most importantly, love is a powerful thing that moves you to let go of the person you love even though you know that it hurts because you love him so much that you're willing to sacrifice your happiness for his. 

If I can ever find a man that can make me feel this way, I'm his for life. But hey, that's just me. What do you think?

Till the next time~

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